Can Someone Be Very

 When it comes to experiencing change, it is often said that self-awareness is essential. The reason for this is that if one is not aware of what is going on for them, how will they be able to change their life?

Through being aware of what is taking place both internally and externally, they will be able to move forward. Still, this is a process and not something that one develops and that's the end of it.

For Example

So, let's assume that someone has the tendency to procrastinate. Through being aware of this, they will be able to take a different approach and then start making progress in one or a number of areas of their life.

Or, they could find that they often feel down and depressed. By having this awareness, they will be able to look into the thoughts that they have and how they perceive reality during this time and then change both of these things.

The Observer

Also, they could take a step back and see that certain 'negative' things continually take place. The next step will be for them to see what part they are playing in what is going on.

By looking closer, they may see that they have the inclination to do certain things that are undermining them. For example, they could find that they are often late, don't put in enough effort, are critical of others and/or are not very present around others.

It's worth it

Thanks to the work that they put into developing their self-awareness, then, their life will improve. Along with this, they can start to develop a new identity, seeing themselves as a self-aware person.

Nonetheless, if this does take place they might need to be careful as it could go to their head and they could soon end up experiencing something that makes them wonder how they could be so unaware. But, as this is a lifelong process, not a destination, this is not something that can be avoided.

One Outcome

Through developing their self-awareness, they are likely to find that their relationships change. Some of their relationships could change, whilst others could end up falling away and new relationships will form.

One thing that could surprise them, if this was to take place, is that they could end up in intimate relationships with people who are not very self-aware. This could then be seen as a pattern that they have and one that they need to change.